“Easy for you to say, Phil. You’re already weird.”
So are you. Being a Latter-day Saint is weird. We are a peculiar people.
What do you care what other people think?Richard Feynman, winner of the Nobel Prize in Physics, 1965
Too many of us do what everyone else does, without thinking about whether that’s the best option for us.
Here in the Western world, a typical person’s life goes like this:
- Work at a boring/stressful job
- Retire for a little bit
For Latter-day Saint men there’s usually a mission or two in there somewhere, but the rest is the same.
We’ve been conditioned to believe this is how life goes. We figure we’ll enjoy life later. When we retire.
Most people die not long after retiring.
I spent twenty years doing things just to make money. After that I decided to try to find a better way.
I’m finally figuring out how to support myself and my kids doing things I love.
And it doesn’t involve getting a J.O.B. Just Over Broke. Building someone else’s dream. Working forty hours a week. Having someone else dictate my schedule. Barely having any time and energy left to do what I want.
Getting a job is one of many things our society tells us is “normal.”
Our society is sick, and getting sicker.
Don’t listen to them.
It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society.Jiddu Krishnamurti
Heavenly Father didn’t give you a unique set of talents and abilities so you could be like everyone else. Stop suppressing the things that make you unique.
Try stuff out. Try as many different things as you can (as long as it’s not something immoral). See what you like. Pursue that.
Improve. Learn more, even though you’ve left school. Keep pushing. Don’t over stress yourself, but keep growing.
Be what James Altucher calls “The Criminal of Their Rules.”
Be willing to be ridiculed.
Be willing to be thought a fool.
Be a non-conformist.
Be willing to live by inspiration and revelation.