I relapsed a couple of days ago.
I’ve been in a funk ever since.
It had been about a week since my last relapse. I was feeling pretty good.
I’m not sure exactly what happened. Maybe I gave the thought too much attention.
Hopefully I’ll feel better by Monday.
Have a good weekend.
That’s the theory, anyway.
You think about watching porn. You to entertain the idea. The feelings follow.
What if you short-circuit the process?
Derail that train?
What if you dismiss the thought?
Move on before the feelings come?
That’s what Amy Johnson, PhD suggests in The Little Book of Big Change: The No-Willpower Approach to Breaking Any Habit.
The book is not specifically about porn or masturbation. Amy Johnson used this technique to overcome Binge-eating Disorder.
The neurons that fire together, wire together.
If you watch porn and masturbate every time you feel the urge, you strengthen the connection between the urges and the behavior.
Dismissing the urge, even once, weakens that connection. The more urges you dismiss, the weaker the connection.
I haven’t overcome my addiction yet.
I admit I haven’t tried very hard.
But I have been able to dismiss urges successfully.
I know I can beat this thing, it’s just a matter of making the effort.